Andrew Sullivan has written, beautifully I might add, about how the realization that he was gay was for him meant making a choice between the family he was born into and the, awright, love he felt. It is well worth reading. It makes me wonder if my long-held gut feeling is right on -- that for many gay people, marraige at this point is much more about retaining a place in your birth family than it may be for those who already have the right to marry everywhere.
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